This week we look at another famous person who lived with and overcame autism to do extraordinary things. Considered the father of fairytales, the stories written by this autistic have been handed down over the centuries and today are still some of the best fairy tales ever written.The excerpt comes from the children?s book Different Like Me written by Jennifer Elder.?Hans Christian Andersen didn?t fit in very well in his home town. So when he was just 14, he set out for the big city of Copenhagen. It was a very long walk, but Hans was excited. Soon he would be in a new place where nobody knew him. Hans could start a brand new life!Unfortunately, life in Copenhagen wasn?t much better than it had been at home. Hans tried to find work but didn?t have any luck. So instead he started school, but didn?t fit in there, either. The other boys teased him for being tall and awkward, and they hurt his feelings. Even the teachers weren?t very nice. 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They invited him because he was Hans.Hans wrote about lots of different things, but one of his best-loved stories is about being different. The Ugly Duckling tells the story of a young duck who doesn?t look or sound like everybody else. Just like Hans, he leaves home, looking for somewhere to belong?and just like Hans,[url=http://www.cheapjerseysfactorywholesale@#$%&/]Jerseys NFL Wholesale[/url], he gets some bumps and bruises along the way. In the end, though, the ugly duckling discovers that he?s not ugly?he?s not even a duckling! He?s a beautiful swan. It took Hans a while, but he finally realized that just because he was different didn?t mean there was something wrong with him. Hans had been a swan all along.Hans Christian Andersen?s stories have been read all over the world, and inspired everything from paintings to songs to movies. 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Like your day planner, it relieves me of the stress of having to remember what comes next, makes for smooth transitions between activities, and helps me manage my time and meet your expectations.Focus and build on what I can do rather than what I can?t do. Like any other human, I can?t learn in an environment where I?m constantly made to feel that I?m not good enough or that I need fixing. Trying anything new when I am almost sure to be met with criticism, however constructive, becomes something to be avoided. Look for my strengths and you?ll find them. There?s more than one right way to do most things.Help me with social interactions. It may look like I don?t want to play with the other kids on the playground, but sometimes it?s just that I simply don?t know how to start a conversation or enter a play situation. 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